What To Do When Your Girlfriend/Boyfriend Is Upset With You

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So this story is not preplanned or anything. This story happened yesterday and I’m just sharing my thoughts which you may find helpful maybe in future.

So in any relationship, these fights, arguments, insecurity or lack of intimation happen after a certain period of time and that’s totally fine. I mean no one is perfect and everyone do mistake.

So today I will share how you can turn a fighting moment or stressing moment into a happy moment.

  1. Never ever underestimate his/her feelings or say bad about relationships

No matter what happens, just don’t devalue your relationships and give a bad name because of just a small fight. As you know words can’t be taken back.

2. Seduce her and play romantic with her

I mean, come on! You know their weakness so if you can’t control your thoughts then it's the best way to change your thoughts and get messy with each other. Romance after a fight is just mind-blowing, trust me!

3. Be an Active Listener

Like really, I have seen the worst fights in my life and some personally experienced them too but if you are not an active listener then you cannot solve your fights, I must say. Let’s say if you both are fire then how can you dissolve the fire. If one is fire then the other must be water. You must understand this fact.

4. Practice Apologizing even if it’s not your mistake

Don’t take me wrong here, I’m not promoting feminism or on any particular gender side. If you think that the situation is better than before then go, talk about it clearly like what went wrong and then apologize. It will make other people think and guilty too. Apologizing doesn’t cost you anything but save your days for sure.

5. Try Outing or Short Trips together once in a while

Yes, taking short or long trips together will help a lot. If you be out in nature then all the suffering, anxiety or stress will go away. It’s my personal experience, Trust me! Spending some quality time together at a different place away from home and work will change your mood and the miscommunication which leads to frustration and anger will definitely go away.

So try these things and share your thoughts in the comment below about how you feel and think about this. Would love to know your thoughts on the same.

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I am a full time Digital Marketer, passionate traveler & now writer. New on medium. Love talking about Spirituality, Self-growth, Relationships & Business.

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Nomadic David

Nomadic David

I am a full time Digital Marketer, passionate traveler & now writer. New on medium. Love talking about Spirituality, Self-growth, Relationships & Business.

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